The Comfort of the Past: Why We Decorate Like It’s 1998

Walk into any home goods store today, and you might feel confused about what year it is. One corner sells chunky knit blankets and wooden spoons (cottagecore). Another has dark wood bookshelves and old-fashioned lamps (dark academia). A third is full of inflatable plastic chairs and glittery butterfly clips (Y2K). We are living in a “time jumble” of styles, and it is not an accident.

This trend is often called “nostalgia aesthetics.” Simply put, it means decorating and dressing in the style of a past era. But why are so many people doing it now? The answer is not just about taste. It is about feelings.

When the news is full of uncertainty—prices going up, jobs changing, the climate feeling unstable—our brains look for something safe. The past, even a past we never actually lived through, feels safer than the future. A cozy cottage kitchen or a 1990s bedroom reminds us of a time when things seemed simpler. It is “comfort decor.”

Take 28-year-old Maya, who recently painted her living room a soft sage green and bought a secondhand rocking chair. “I don’t know why, but sitting in that chair makes me feel calm,” she says. “It feels like my grandmother’s house, even though my grandmother never had a chair like that.” Maya is not alone. Social media is full of people “romanticizing” their lives with old-fashioned teacups, handwritten letters, and film cameras.

Of course, there is a risk. Nostalgia can turn into a costume. Buying a vintage dress does not bring back the past. And we must ask: was the past really better for everyone? Still, the desire to feel safe is human. If a warm lamp and a chipped mug help us feel grounded in a fast-moving world, perhaps that is not silly. It is simply self-care in a very old form.

So next time you see a teenager knitting a scarf or a grown adult buying a disposable camera, don’t laugh. They are not just following a trend. They are looking for a small, quiet place to feel at home. 

Sherry

Grade 9

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